Sara Carton agreed to keep seeing Ben Mezzenga after rejecting him at the altar on Love Is Blind for his seeming lack of engagement in anything with any depth -- among other relationship red flags -- only for him to ghost her a week or two later.

Love Is Blind star Ben Mezzenga seemed surprised when Sara Carton said no at the altar, but she revealed that they had actually discussed their answers ahead of time. "I was shocked about that," Sara,

"We lived together for about a week or two, and then I got back to my home, and then he actually did drop me. He removed me from Find My Friends," Sara says.

The latest season of 'Love is Blind' has sparked a heated debate after Sara Carton left her fiance, Ben Mezzenga, over political differences

"Also, me saying no to a marriage, why would I continue dating someone? If you're going to say no to that, why even continue the relationship?" Sara Carton tells PEOPLE after Ben Mezzenga suggested th

While the pair repeatedly expressed their love for each other, they struggled to get on the same page about religion and social issues.

Sara Carton tells PEOPLE she "was shocked" by Ben Mezzenga after 'Love Is Blind,' but says it gave her "the most clarity of who Ben is"

Although Sara and Ben didn't get married, Ben expressed interest in continuing to date after 'Love Is Blind.' Now, they're revealing if that happened or not.

Love Is Blind Sara Carton shared her reaction to ex Ben Mezzenga ditching her after their failed wedding, admitting that she found his behavior to be ‘bizarre.’